Children are the best thing that happen after marriage in the couple life. It’s a great feeling of becoming a parent of a child but with that feeling there comes a great responsibility.
You have to always put the need of your child before yours. While giving a proper care to a new born, couple does not get time for themselves.
When a baby is born, along with happiness there is dwindle in romance of couple. Growing a baby and making your partner happy at the same time is very difficult.
Especially for women they have to go with the painful phase while carrying the baby in the womb till giving birth. In the postpartum period couple lose their romance in their life.
Though it’s hard to maintain a romance in your life but it is not impossible. You can rejuvenate your life in a romantic way if you consider the suggestions below.
1. Date at a home
Dating doesn’t mean going out and eating fancy meal but it’s about making a time into your time that blossoms your relation.
You can manage a time at home and make your favorite dish or you can order online while watching Netflix. It’s a best idea for a new mom and dad to have a quality time at home when their child is sleeping.
2. Flirt with each other
Flirt is the best tool to maintain a healthy and romantic life. You can give compliment about hair, dress or anything else to each other.
You can send flirty messages, leave romantic notes for your partner, etc. Flirt like you have just met and fall in love with each other that you used to do when you weren’t a couple.
3. Creative intimacy
Intimacy is not only about consummation, it is also about emotional attachment and relaxation. After having a kid, you will be tired and exhausted.
There will be many nights that you don’t get to sleep while caring your kid. Due to this reason, you will feel fatigue and drowsy. In those times you can help each other by massaging neck and foot.
Say ‘I love you’ to each other, cuddling and holding hands while watching movies can be great ideas to show physical affection.
4. Explore something new together
Besides from parenthood find something that you are both interested in. You can learn something new together or you can find a hobby that makes your bond stronger. It really helps to ignite the spark in your relationship.
Sanam Gurung